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  • Mathematician Parent: Libby Often

    Mathematician Parent: Libby Often

    Most parents aren’t professional mathematicians. But there are a few. This is the seventh in a series of interviews with mathematician parents with the goal of helping parents integrate math teaching into parenting.

    This week we visit with Libby Often, a math teacher at Greater Lowell Regional Technical High School. She’s also an EdD student studying Math and Science Education at the University of Massachusetts Lowell.

    MathFour: Hey there, Libby! Thanks for sharing your time. First, can you tell us a little about your degree and career?

    Libby: Hello Bon, it’s nice to hear from you.

    My undergraduate degree is in history and classical studies. I have the equivalent of an undergraduate major in math as well (but not the degree to show for it!). Additionally, I have an MEd in Secondary Math Education and am currently in the EdD program for Math and Science Education at UMass Lowell. I am a teacher in a technical high school in northeastern Massachusetts, where I have taught math for the past ten years. I am speaking “off the record” here – not as an official school employee 🙂

    In high school, I was on the math team and the calculus team, and I cannot recall not enjoying math. Well, actually, I didn’t really enjoy the first semester of linear algebra, and I have struggled with writing proofs, but there was always something interesting!

    MathFour: Tell me about your family – how many kids do you have and how old are they? Are any of them more or less interested in math than the others in the family?

    Libby: I have two sons, a 10 year old and a 12 year old. Both are in middle school (grades 5 and 7). They both enjoy math, and are successful in it at school. I should add that this is their interest, not mine. Although I did tell my 12 year old that he would need to go into Pre-Algebra in grade 7, and to make sure his grades supported it.

    MathFour: Do you have any worries about your sons, academically? In particular, do you think they will do better in math than in other subjects because of your influence?

    Libby: I don’t really have any worries about my children now – my younger son has poor handwriting, and both my children hate writing projects. My likes seem to not influence them tremendously, especially at this point.

    MathFour: How do you play with your sons? Do you view your playtime as different in any way than other “non-mathematician” parents?

    Libby: I don’t really play with my kids now, other than card and board games. When they were younger, I didn’t play with them in a way that was different from what I saw other parents doing.

    We do talk about strategy, about piece placement in board games, about probabilities in games like Yahtzee, but I don’t see that as very different from other parents – especially those who play board games. My sons really like video games, and I have utilized their interests in some of my lesson planning, so maybe that is different?

    MathFour: Do you think you speak with your sons or behave differently than other parents because you have a math background?

    Libby: I really don’t think I speak or behave differently with my children because of my background in math. The main difference might be in the way that I talk to their friends – I invite friends over to work on homework, summer math, projects, and other school work, and that is definitely influenced by being an educator.

    What I do like about being involved in math education is seeing the different ways that students are taught to approach problems, and having an opportunity to talk to them, and talk about why these approaches work, and when else they may use them.

    MathFour: Have you ever had either of your children express negative thoughts about math? If not, how do you think you will handle it if that happens?

    Libby: In general, my kids don’t express negative thoughts about math, unless they have gotten a low quiz or test score and I insist that they go over the answers and correct them. I think my response would be on par with what their goals are, and what type of negative response they were exhibiting.

    I would be much more upset if, for example, my son told me I was an idiot because no one would ever need to know how to use fractions, than if he decided he wanted to major in English because he didn’t like math, or that he didn’t want to take AP Calculus.

    I try hard to look at the end goal – a happy, well-functioning adult, who can support himself and others. And math is involved in that!

    MathFour: Indeed it is, Libby!

    Have you ever disagreed with one of your children’s math teachers? What happened and how did you handle it?

    Libby: I have disagreed with other teachers, not necessarily the ones teaching my children. Our district is fortunate to have math coaches, and my sons have overall had good teachers, who were interested in the accuracy of what they were teaching. My colleagues at school and I have disagreed on a number of occasions, and the thing is that we all want students to succeed. So we have to come to an agreement about what will lead to student success in understanding and in preparation for what will come next for them mathematically speaking. I would expect to be able to have a similar conversation with my children’s teachers.

    MathFour: Now to change direction a little to a more worldview of math. What do you see as the biggest challenge in math education today?

    Libby: I think the biggest challenge, and the biggest hope, right now in US Math Education is the new Common Core curriculum. I really like these standards and the clarity with which they are written. There is no longer the room for teachers to say, “I taught them that!” because the standards specify what the child should be able to do.

    But at the same time, students are expected to master all the content for, say, grade four, during grade four. In the US, our public education programs take almost everyone – we are not excluding people because of socio-economic status, language, gender, or other protected categories.

    But this can be at odds with the idea that a certain concept is mastered in grade four, and then we move on to utilize and deepen that concept in grade five, six, seven, etc. Some students may need more time, for whatever reason, and the curricula that we devise is going to have to address this need for review.

    In addition, the math standards for high school are really college preparation standards, and do a great job of developing the quantitative reasoning needed for success in college but at the expense of a lot of skills we used to teach in consumer mathematics. For students to be successful in those areas we need to be sure they are picking up the knowledge somewhere, perhaps in a “transitions to work” course, or in extracurricular programs.

    One other thing that I think is very challenging in terms of mathematics education and education in general is that our society tends to be very product focused in a way that works well for business, but not for education. The successful countries don’t see changes in a few months, but over a number of years. So people need to be willing to wait.

    MathFour: What can you say to non-mathematician parents that might help them raise their kids to like and appreciate math?

    Libby: What advice would I offer to parents who aren’t lovers of math? Admit that to your children, and talk to them about some other things that you don’t love.

    Personally, I dislike laundry and ironing, but I am still competent, and the family wears clean and pressed clothes. Also, I am not any good at plumbing work. But I do try to determine what may be causing a problem before I call the plumber, so I can be as helpful as possible. And I treat my plumber like a valuable professional.

    Even if kids and parents struggle with “school math,” they should treat it like any other problem – what do I understand, what do I not understand (and believe me, the answer is never “I don’t understand anything!”), what can I do with what I do know?

    Ian Stewart says something great in his book Letters to a Young Mathematician about mathematicians and what we can use mathematics for. The essence of it is that if someone trains to be a doctor, or a lawyer, or an electrician, you can SEE that, because there will be a sign “Joe Smith, electrician.”

    But mathematics can be more hidden. It is the person who designs the survey to determine who people will vote for, the circuit design in your cell phone, the accountant who does your taxes, the person who wrote your email software. All of these people may have studied math, but their job description doesn’t say it.

    The advice I take from that is look for the “hidden math,” and look too at the beauty of it.

    Bon: That’s awesome, Libby! Thank you so much for sharing not just yourself, but all this great information!

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  • What is “Living Math”?

    What is “Living Math”?

    Look – there’s a 30 degree angle!

    Some folks over at the Living Math Forum were wondering if they were doing living math right.

    There’s probably a fancy definition of living math, but I don’t know it.

    The fact is that we all live math! The trick for parents and teachers is to point it out to our kids.

    Ever sat waiting in a doctor’s office with a child? You find yourself “edutaining” them with, “Look, the chair is BLUE!”

    Remember to also say things like, “Look, there are five chairs and six people…”.

    Encourage them to notice that one lady is sitting on the floor because there aren’t enough chairs. Voila! Subtraction!

    So counting people is living math. As is going grocery shopping, cooking, drinking 1/2 cup water, and breathing 87% O2.

    You’re doing it right because you just can’t do it wrong!

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  • Counting with Big Numbers

    Counting with Big Numbers

    Last night I had the privilege to meet and teach Eddie*, an ESL student from Mexico, at Literacy Advance of Houston. He was there to learn in the “Math and Your Life” class, as part of the “Math and…” class series.

    I didn’t realize I was there to learn too.

    I walked in prepared to discuss just about anything math related. And I’m glad that was the preparation I did.

    Eddie was interested in something that I’ve long struggled with. And I’m guessing many children struggle with it, too.

    In English, the number 1600 is pronounced both as sixteen hundred and as one thousand six hundred. I still get these mixed up. Not when I stop and think about them, but when I casually and quickly throw them out.

    Husband is often stunned when I tell him I saw a new suburban at the low low price of thirty-five hundred dollars. Of course I mean thirty-five thousand dollars!

    It’s not just me, I guess.

    I wonder how many other grown-ups still struggle with this. And how often we neglect to teach this to children.

    We are quite accustomed, and comfortable, with teaching our youngsters to count from 1 to 10. Were amazingly proud when we can get them to count from 1 to 20.

    Is that enough? Based on my conversation with Eddie last night, no.

    Teach them skip counting with hundreds!

    Why not use the 1-20 model with hundreds? Like this:

    one hundred
    two hundred
    three hundred
    .
    .
    .
    eight hundred
    nine hundred
    one thousand
    eleven hundred
    twelve hundred
    thirteen hundred
    fourteen hundred
    .
    .
    .
    nineteen hundred
    two thousand
    twenty one hundred
    .
    .
    .

    Teach them all sorts of counting!

    I suggested in this article to count with your children by fractions. It never occurred to me to count by giant numbers.

    What other ways should we teach children to count? Share your ideas in the comments.

    *”Eddie” is used as a variable – i.e. his name has been changed because I didn’t ask his permission to talk about him.

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  • 9 Ways Teaching Math is Like Giving Birth

    9 Ways Teaching Math is Like Giving Birth

    Now that school’s officially in session, I’m really thinking about all the homeschooling moms who are taking on teaching math. I can’t help but see the similarities to something they’ve already done – given birth.

    For each, I noticed that…

    It’s darn scary.

    Giving birth is pretty freaky. Especially if you’ve never seen or done it before. If you have the privilege of seeing another arrive in this world, it makes it easier. (I watched both my sisters and my best friend give birth!)

    Teaching math might be a whole new world – and pretty strange if you’ve never done it. Dig back to some good math experiences you had as a child and draw on those.

    It’s gonna happen no matter what.

    Kids get born. They must. And they do. So you might as well make the best of it and enjoy the process the best you can – with a happy and positive pregnancy!

    Kids learn math. They must. And they do. So you might as well make the best of it and encourage them in the best way – with a happy and positive math environment!

    You get to choose how you do it!

    You can give birth at home, in a hospital, with a doctor, with nobody, with drugs, without drugs… pretty much any way you want.

    We’ve got more freedom now that we ever had. In Texas, where Betsy and I live, a homeschool is an independent private school. We get to teach in an unschooling way with lovely things like Math on the Level.

    It may not go the way you want,

    You’ve got a great plan. You know what to do and how to do it. You’ve taken the classes and my goodness! You’re in hard labor for 32 hours and you’re still at labor station -4.

    You might think you have the best curriculum in the world. You’re all prepared. You start teaching an holy cow! Your sweet student couldn’t be less interested in everything you’re presenting.

    …so be flexible.

    Yes you’re frustrated. Remember the goal – a healthy child. Put away the frustrations and go for the C. Make it up by being a breastfeeding champion.

    Likewise, you’re wanting a happy, healthy child. Choose a different curriculum. Let your child choose a different one. Experiment. Make it up by taking the crew to a great museum.

    There are professionals for this.

    Get a good ob/gyn, doula or midwife. You don’t have to go-it alone.

    Get a tutor, enroll in a program like Kumon, join a homeschool co-op. You don’t have to go-it alone.

    There is lots of information online.

    With books like Betsy Dewey’s Birthright and sites like this one, there’s no reason to go into either blind.

    It’s hard,

    Giving birth is no piece of cake. However you choose to do it, you’re gonna have pain – in some way. Not to mention the nine months of puberty-like hormone swings!

    Teaching math is a challenge. It’s not about conveying information, it’s about following a child’s natural curiosity and pointing out the math that happens along the way. Which means having to recognize math and the learning/curiosity style of another human. Not an easy task.

    …and it’s worth it.

    AH, the prize! When you are presented with a slimy little mini-human, you can’t help but think how cool it is!

    And when a munchkin comes to you and says, “Did you know…” your heart fills with the glee of knowing that she extrapolated to get that – not just memorized it.

    Are there more?

    Any other similarities that I missed? Share them in the comments!

    Betsy Dewey, my cousin, was a huge help and resource when I was pregnant with Daughter. She was pregnant with her second at the same time – that made it even cooler!

    Betsy is an advocate of natural home birth and homeschooling. This article is written in honor of her and everyone else that listens to the beat of their family’s drum – and marches to it!

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  • Unrecognized Math Conversations

    Unrecognized Math Conversations

    I had the pleasure of assisting Sarah Shah in her appearance on Great Day Houston yesterday.

    While preparing for the show, I observed Sarah and the host, Deborah Duncan, in the makeup room having a conversation about math.

    When I said to Sarah later, “that was an interesting math conversation,” she looked at me with anticipation, encouraging me to share what I heard. She had no idea I was referring to her conversation!

    The math conversation was fully on-topic.

    It was national thrift store day, and Sarah was going to share with GDH viewers some tips on shopping at resale shops. The topic of the show inspired their kibitzing behind-the-scenes about buying gold jewelry.

    Deborah was talking about how there’s a difference (sometimes big) between the cost of the gold in a piece of jewelry, and the sale price.

    The cost of craftsmanship should be close to its value.

    Deborah was making the point that there’s value on the design of an object based on the workmanship that went into it. And this goes only so far.

    Right now gold prices are around $1700 per ounce. Since an ounce is around 28 grams, gold is valued at about $60 per gram.

    The QVC bracelet in the picture is 9 grams. It’s selling for $530 – pretty much exactly the value of the gold contained within.

    If the value of gold for a 9 gram bracelet is around $530, charging $3000 for it means you’re paying about $2500 for the craftsmanship!

    Unconscious math is all around.

    Aqua And Gold Fractal by Sharon Apted

    It was a wonderful experience to see two intelligent, educated women having a lively and entertaining conversation about math. It was quite disheartening, though, that Sarah didn’t even recognize it. In a previous life she was a physicist.

    How many other conversations about math are ignored? How many people who claim they aren’t good at math have these conversations every day?

    Look around at your conversations this week. How many of them are about math? Share your conversations in the comments. And with your kids!

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  • Mathematician Parent: Jennifer Wilson

    Mathematician Parent: Jennifer Wilson

    Most parents aren’t professional mathematicians. But there are a few. This is the sixth in a series of interviews with mathematician parents with the goal of helping parents integrate math teaching into parenting.

    Jennifer here shown receiving recognition for being a Mississippi finalist for the Presidential Awards for Excellence in Mathematics and Science Teaching!

    This week we visit with a high school math teacher in Mississippi. Jennifer Wilson, NBCT, teaches at Northwest Rankin High School, and is a Teachers Teaching with Technology (T3) instructor with Texas Instruments.

    MathFour: Thanks so much, Jennifer for giving us your time. First, can you share a little about your degree and career?

    Jennifer: I have a B.S. and an M.S. in mathematics. I have been teaching high school mathematics for 18 years.

    MathFour: Tell me about your family – how many kids do you have and how old are they? Are any of them more or less interested in math than the others in the family?

    Jennifer: I have two daughters who are 6 and 9. They are okay with math – but the 9 year old will tell everyone very quickly that her first love is reading.

    MathFour: Do you have any worries about your girls academically? In particular, do you think they will do better in math than in other subjects because of your influence?

    Jennifer: I feel very lucky to not be worried about my children academically. They love to learn. My husband and I both encourage their curiosity and try not to stifle their desire to ask why or come up with a different idea of how to do something, especially when the only good reason we can think of is “because I told you so”.

    I think they will do well in math – but not necessarily better than other subjects. My husband and I both love to learn, and so the girls definitely recognize that desire and enjoy learning as well.

    MathFour: That’s great! How do you play with your daughters? Do you view your playtime as different in any way than other “non-mathematician” parents?

    Jennifer: We play games. I probably view play differently than a lot of parents – but probably similar to many teachers, no matter their subject of expertise. I am all about learning, and it is hard to turn that off, even at home.

    MathFour: Do you think you speak with your daughters or behave differently than other parents because you have a math background?

    Jennifer: Yes. Anytime some kind of math problem arises, I always ask the girls about their thinking, because I am very interested in how they arrive at answers.

    At dinner, one daughter noticed that her tortilla chip was in the shape of a trapezoid, so we had a great conversation that night about trapezoids. We have a “pi” pie plate, so both girls already know a little bit about pi. They definitely call an “oval” an ellipse and a “diamond” a rhombus. They have called their blocks by the appropriate solid names, such as cylinders, prisms, and pyramids, since a very early age.

    When the 9 year old missed a question on her state practice test about perspective drawing, instead of just telling her the correct answer, I got out the stash of Unifix cubes at our house to make her build the drawing with the cubes. She completely understood after doing so – and asked me to make up some more questions for her because she enjoyed working through the problems with the manipulatives. Both daughters play with my TI-Nspire™ CX handheld. They love making shapes, measuring their parts, and making them different colors.

    MathFour: I had to google that one – fancy device!

    Have you ever had either of your girls express negative thoughts about math? If not, how do you think you will handle it if that happens?

    Jennifer: Not yet…I’m not sure I will handle it well. But I am hopeful that since my goal is not just calculating math but understanding math, they can at least appreciate my passion for it, and I will honor their passion for another subject, if the need arises.

    MathFour: How do you think you’ll handle it if you find your self in disagreement with one of your children’s math teachers?

    Jennifer: I’m not sure I will handle it well if it does happen, but so far, so good. I am lucky to teach in a great school district with great support for teachers at all levels, so I will keep my fingers crossed!

    MathFour: Now to change direction a little to a more worldview of math. What do you see as the biggest challenge in math education today?

    Jennifer: Having teachers who are experts in mathematics at all grade levels.

    MathFour: What do you see great happening in the world of math education?

    Jennifer: I see teachers who are willing to use technology to engage students in the learning and understanding of mathematics, teachers who are learning alongside students (often because of and through technology), and teachers who are willing to give up some of their control over the classroom to create a classroom that is truly interactive.

    MathFour: What advice can you give to non-mathematician parents that might help them raise their kids to like and appreciate math.

    Jennifer: I have been amazed at some of the mathematics that my students are learning in the computer games that they play. So while I realize that some students go overboard with the time that they spend in front of their electronic devices, find a way to encourage them to explore mathematics through tools that do interest them.

    MathFour: Wonderful, Jennifer, thank you so much!

    How ’bout You? It’s back to school time – do you have any questions for a super technology oriented math mom? Ask them in the comments!

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  • The Math of Parenting

    The Math of Parenting

    Today’s article is from Laura Laing, author of the book Math For Grownups and publisher of the website of the same name.

    So you think you don’t use math on a daily basis? Think again.

    You may not be solving for x, and the distance formula may not roll off the tip of your frontal lobe—mainly because you haven’t used it in years and years. But if you can put “parent” among your titles, you do math. I promise.

    Just look at a typical day:

    6:35 a.m.

    Your darling daughter went to bed late last night. Seems that she couldn’t pull herself away from the most recent novel she’s devouring, and she had to finish, “just one chapter.” Problem is, she’s a bear to wake up when sleep deprived, and she’s got an 8:00 checkup at the pediatrician. She can usually get ready in about 45 minutes, and it takes 15 minutes to get to the doc’s office. How much longer can you let her sleep in?

    9:03 a.m.

    Check-up is done, and you’re waiting to pay the bill. You’ve got $33.65 in your wallet and a $25 co-pay. But after a morning of running errands, you’ve promised dear daughter lunch at the local fast food place. Should you use your cash for the co-pay or pay with plastic?

    11:21 a.m.

    At the grocery store, you’re deciding between three brands of ketchup. One is on sale for $2.27. For another, you have a 50¢ off coupon. And the third is a smaller container for only $1.49. Which one should you buy?

    12:08 p.m.

    At Burgers ‘R’ Us, your daughter has requested the chicken nuggets and a drink – no fries! You’d like to eat the fries that come with her kids’ meal, but you’re not sure you can afford the calories. Luckily, the restaurant has a handy sign displaying the caloric values for each menu item. What can you order to go with her fries that won’t force you to eat only carrot sticks for dinner?

    1:31 p.m.

    You need to fill up, and you have your choice of gas stations. One offers regular unleaded for $3.27 per gallon, plus a free car wash (a $10 value). Another offers $3.15 per gallon—no car wash. Which station offers the best deal?

    2:47 p.m.

    It’s time for your daughter to practice piano—a task that she hates. You thought the practicing contest that her teacher started would give her the motivation to practice every day. Nope. So today, she’s going to try to catch up on the days that she slacked off. She’s expected to practice a total of 15 minutes a day, but she’s only practiced a total of 25 minutes for the week. Her lesson is tomorrow. How many more minutes does she need to practice to please her teacher?

    5:32 p.m.

    Time for dinner, and you’re exhausted. Instead of making a meal from scratch, you decide to order from the local pizza joint. Your daughter wants plain cheese, your husband wants pepperoni and sausage and you want a veggie pizza. What’s the most cost-effective way to order dinner?

    8:35 p.m.

    Thankfully, your daughter has crashed early, meaning she can catch up on the sleep she lost last night. If you wake her up at 7:00 a.m., how much sleep will she have gotten?

    Typical day? Perhaps. Typical math? Definitely.

    So the next time you think, “I can’t do math,” keep in mind the number-based tasks that come across your path on a normal day. You might be surprised at what you accomplish without even thinking about it.

    Where is the math in your day? Tell us in the comments!

    Laura Laing is the author of Math for Grownups, a funny and accessible look at how the over-18 set uses math in everyday situations. While this post is not based exactly on a day out of her life, it could be. She is a freelance writer and the parent of a pre-teen in Baltimore.

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  • Mathematician Parent: David Wees

    Mathematician Parent: David Wees

    Most parents aren’t professional mathematicians. But there are a few. This is the fifth in a series of interviews with mathematician parents with the goal of helping parents integrate math teaching into parenting.

    I am quite excited to feature David Wees who teaches at Stratford Hall in Vancouver. David and I have been on numerous #mathchats together and I’ve found him engaging, fun and knowledgeable. He publishes the website The Reflective Educator (formerly 21st Century Educator).

    MathFour: Thanks so much, David for taking the time to answer some questions. First, can you share some more about your degree and career? How long have you been in math?

    David: I have a bachelor of science in mathematics with nearly 60 credits in honors level mathematics. I finished my degree in 1998, but have never been officially a mathematician. Instead, I teach mathematics in middle school and high school, and have recently moved into a new position as a learning specialist for technology.

    MathFour: Tell me about your family – how many kids do you have and how old are they? How do your family members feel about math?

    David: I have a wife, and a nearly 5 year old son. My wife found math to be painfully difficult for her entire career, but hides it well around our son. My son loves math. He recently confided in me that he knows math only slightly less than me, but that I know more technology, and he knows more science.

    MathFour: How cute! And great that your wife tries to keep the math environment positive.

    Do you have any worries about your son academically? In particular, do you think he will do better in math than in other subjects?

    David: I have no concerns at all about my son academically. He is bright, creative, and independently minded. He will almost certainly do better in math than his other subjects. Today he ripped a book because the “binding was loose.” So we told him to find $11 dollars in his piggy bank. He pulled out five $2 coins and one $1 in about a minute, carefully counting by 2s for the first $10, and then adding another dollar.

    MathFour: How do you play with your son? Do you inject math a lot?

    David: I think we play ordinary games, with some exceptions. Certainly we include mathematical play in our sessions. We count everything, and introduce different ways of counting. We play dice games and practice adding small numbers. We stack blocks in patterns. I’ve also recently introduced a “how can we get this number game.” For example, “How can we get 5?” My son responded with “1 and 1 and 1 and 1 and 1 makes five. Hrmm. 2 and 3 makes five. 4 and 1 makes five.”

    MathFour: Great game!

    Do you think you speak with your son or behave differently than other parents because you have a math background?

    David: Definitely. We spend much more time talking about numbers than other parents do.

    MathFour: Has your son ever expressed negative thoughts about math?

    David: I’ve not noticed any negative thoughts from my son on math, with the exception that he thinks I know more math than he does. He did ask me today about the odd, even pattern. “Why does it matter if a number is odd or even?” I told him it helped us know quickly if we could split the number into two equal parts. I don’t think he was terribly impressed by that explanation.

    MathFour: LOL! I guess that is a little unimpressive.

    Your son is almost five, so I’m guessing he’s not had many math teachers. Do you anticipate you’ll ever disagree with any of his math teachers? And what do you think you’ll do if that happens?

    David: My son is just starting school. As I work at the same school as he will be attending, I will have to handle disagreements with his math teachers very carefully.

    MathFour: Now to change direction a little to a more worldview of math. What do you see as the biggest challenge in math education today?

    David: Mathematics, as it is usually taught, is neither interesting or relevant to students. Given that relevance and engagement are key to deep learning of a subject, it pretty much means that in most generations of people, the vast majority of them lack any functional numeracy.

    MathFour: What do you see great happening in the world of math education?

    David: These types of conversations are amazing in my mind. I love that I can speak my mind about problems in math education and not have everyone jump down my throat.

    MathFour: What advice can you give to non-mathematician parents that might help them raise their kids to like and appreciate math.

    David: Count lots. Play number games early. Treat learning mathematics as important as learning how to read. Spend time playing and learning early math with your kids. Don’t let your kids learn that worksheets and rote memorization are math.

    MathFour: Wow, that was awesome, David! Thanks so much for your time and sharing with us.

    How about You? What are your questions for David? Ask them in the comments. And don’t forget to check out all the great stuff on his website!

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  • Mathematician Parent: Marilyn Curtain-Phillips

    Mathematician Parent: Marilyn Curtain-Phillips

    Most parents aren’t professional mathematicians. But there are a few. This is the fourth in a series of interviews with mathematician parents with the goal of helping parents integrate math teaching into parenting.

    I am honored to be able to interview one of math education’s leading minds, Marilyn Curtain-Phillips, author of Math Attack – How to Reduce Math Anxiety in the Classroom, at Work and in Everyday Personal Use. She also created the amazing playing card deck (also named Math Attack) where the numbers on the numbered cards are tiny expressions –  the 4 of diamonds has 22 on it!

    MathFour: Thanks so much, Marilyn for sharing some of you time with us. First, I’d like to ask about your background. What is your degree and career? How long have you been in math?

    Marilyn: My bachelor of science degree is in mathematics. My master degree is in education with a concentration in mathematics and then an additional 30 hours of mathematics. I have been teaching mathematics for 21 years. I have taught grades 6 through 12. In addition I am now teaching on the college level at a local university for the past three years in the evenings while teaching high school during the day. Prior to teaching, I worked in government and banking for 10 years in the area of accounting.

    MathFour: Wow, your life has been so full of math stuff! Tell me about your children. Are any of them more or less interested in math than the other children?

    Marilyn: I have two children ages 23 and 18. My son, the oldest, has a degree in graphic design. His interest since elementary school has always been in art. Therefore he never showed an interest in mathematics and it was a bit of a struggle. My daughter has just graduated from high school and is going to college with a major in early childhood education. She has been much stronger in mathematics than her brother. But she doesn’t want to teach mathematics, of which I think she is really capable of.

    MathFour: Did you have any worries about your children academically? In particular, did you think they will do better in math than in other subjects because of your influence?

    I encourage them to do what they enjoy. I feel they have adequate mathematics skills and a good foundation due to my additional help provided at home. As a high school mathematics teacher, I have grown more concerned at the foundation that students are coming to high school with.

    MathFour: How did you play with your kids? Did you incorporate math into your play?

    Marilyn: We enjoyed playing board games such as checkers, chess, uno, sorry, playing cards. I wanted to use games that help thinking and reasoning skills. This made great family discussion times while having fun.

    MathFour: Do you think you speak with your children or behave differently than other parents because you have a math background?

    Marilyn: I have always spoken positively about mathematics. Many parents will say in front of children that they dislike mathematics or is not good at it. To me this almost like telling children that mathematics is something that is tolerated and should be dreaded and avoided whenever possible. As a mathematician I know how much mathematics is a gateway to many
    opportunities. This is one of the reasons that I list careers in my book, Math Attack.

    MathFour: Have you ever had any of your children express negative thoughts about math and how did you handle it?

    Marilyn: Yes, my children have spoken negatively from time to time, mostly during test times. I offer advice and encouragement. It is important to stay positive and listen to their concerns and make suggestions.

    MathFour: Have you ever disagreed with one of your children’s math teachers? What happened and how did you handle it?

    Marilyn: Yes, I have had a different method of solving math problems. I talked with my children and let them know that many math problems can be done in different ways. Actually I prefer for my children elementary and middle school teachers not know that I am a mathematics teacher. I didn’t want my children to be graded on a tougher standard than other students.

    I experienced this growing up in a small town. My mother was a high school mathematics teacher, I felt looking back that I was graded on a tougher level and was expected to be extremely strong in mathematics. My sister experienced this also. She is an artist and doesn’t like mathematics.

    MathFour: Now to change direction a little to a more worldview of math. What do you see as the biggest challenge in math education today?

    Marilyn: I feel that many students do not have a strong foundation and understanding of mathematics. I have far too many high school students who do not have their times table and or addition facts memorized. Many mathematics textbooks cover too many topics. Studies have shown that the United States textbooks are thicker than other countries that are stronger in mathematics. It almost feels like a cram session.

    By the time students get comfortable with a concept it is time to move onto something else. I feel this makes students feel less confident about their mathematics abilities. I think these feelings continue throughout the rest of their adult lives. Which leads to many adults going into careers that require as little mathematics as possible.

    MathFour: What do you see great happening in the world of math education?

    Marilyn: I think that it is good that a more hands on approach to teaching mathematics is now being used. Teachers are teaching to the different learning styles. I think that it is good that more high schools are requiring students to have more mathematics credit before graduating from high school. Many states require students to have three or four credits of high school mathematics. Also many of the mathematics curriculum are teaching with everyday life application.

    MathFour: What advice can you give to non-mathematician parents that might help them raise their kids to like and appreciate math.

    Marilyn: I would suggest to non-mathematician parents to speak positively about mathematics. Let their children understand that mathematics is like anything else – it takes practice and patience. Just as parents tell their children to practice at playing sports, they should feel that mathematics takes the same time and effort. Also parents should show their children positive ways they use mathematics in everyday activities such as sewing, cooking, planning a family trip, budgeting and grocery shopping.

    MathFour: I noticed that you also have a new math workbook Who is This Mathematician/Scientist? Can you share with us a little about it?

    Marilyn: It is a workbook for grades 6 through 12, after reading the biography paragraph, students must solve the math problems to see who the bio is about. The activities can also be used as a way to promote multicultural awareness and appreciation.

    MathFour: I can’t wait to check it out! Thanks again for your time and sharing with us.

    How about You? Got any questions for this week’s mathematician parent? Ask them in the comments and we’ll drag her in here to answer them.

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    Originally published as a guest post on MathForGrownups.com, a math blog by Laura Laing.


    Guest Post: Grownups can learn new tricks!

    Bon Crowder, another math evangelist

    A couple of weeks ago, a fellow freelance writer wrote me about her foray into graduate school. She needed to brush up on some math skills, and she wasn’t sure how. I have a feeling that her questions weren’t unique. Whether you need to learn a little extra to help your kid with his homework or you need to take a math class to further your education, learning math again (or for the first time) can be daunting.

    Luckily, my friend and fellow math blogger, Bon Crowder offered to write a guest post on this very topic. I swear, Bon and I were separated at graduation or something, because we approach math education in very similar ways. Plus she’s fun. (See? Math folks aren’t always boring and difficult to understand!)

    I wanted to title this “Being a Great Adult Learner.”

    But that’s dumb. All adults are great learners. If we weren’t, we’d be stumbling around, bumping into doors, starving and naked. We know how to learn, and the proof is that we’re still alive.

    And dressed.

    The question is “What makes you learn?”

    1) You need confidence.

    Confidence involves two things: feeling worthy and knowing you have the ability.

    When people feel they’re entitled to something, they’re more likely to feel confident in getting it. Hang around any Best Buy service desk and you’ll see this in action. People say all kinds of strange things when trying to return a broken product, and these things are said with a sense of entitlement. BY GOLLY they’re going to get their way!

    So how do you gain worthiness and ability? You’re worthy of it because you already have it. And you’re able to do it because you already do.

    You have it all. It’s just hidden behind a wall of words you or someone else (or both) has told you for years. Now’s the time to ignore everybody, even yourself.

    Because here’s the gosh-honest truth: There is not a single thing within a mathematician that is not within you.

    You’ve done math since you were a kid. Even before you were in school. You knew at a deep level that if there was one toy and there was another kid around, you’d better run like the dickens to get it. There’s no dividing that toy evenly between kids.

    You balance your checkbook (or you would be in jail right now), you probably have some rough idea of your gas mileage, and you know that if you have 12 people coming over, you’re going to have to double or triple that recipe for shepherds pie. You know math. Now’s the time to admit it.

    So say this every night before your prayers. If you don’t pray at night, say it twice:

    I do math. Today I woke up on time because I calculated how long it would take to get dressed. I knew how much money to spend because balanced my checkbook. I figured out how much weight I needed to lose – and I used math to do it.

    Modify this statement to fit your lifestyle and run with it. Every night.

    2) You need the right environment.

    Once you’ve tapped in to the realization that you’re inherently good at math, you need the right learning environment.

    This includes location, timing and the other people involved. If you have to drive too far away after working all day and all you get is a lousy quarter-pounder-with-cheese, you’re going to be tired, grumpy and irritable. If your class is full of teenagers fresh out of high school and the professor is 400 years old and believes in death by PowerPoint, things are not going to go well.

    How do you know the right environment?

    Look at all the learning experiences you’ve had through the years. List out the good ones and the bad ones. And then dig deep – what made the good ones good? Why were the bad ones so detrimental?

    Include timing, location, student body, temperature in the room and details of the instructor. List out the attitude of the instructor, his/her teaching style, voice intonations – even how he wrote on the board.

    Pick out the deal-breakers and the nice-to-haves and write them on a special piece of paper. This is your official “Environment Requirement” page. Laminate it, put it in Evernote, tatoo it to your bottom – whatever you do to keep it close so you can refer to it often.

    How do you make sure your Environment Requirements are honored?

    Here’s where that sense of entitlement comes back into play. If your class has a deal-breaker environment element, do something about it. Think, “If this were a faulty remote control that I bought at Best Buy, how would I handle it?”

    Ask the instructor to manage the loud students better. Ask building maintenance to change the temp of the room (or bring a sweater). Don’t sign up for a class during a time when you’ll be tired, hungry and irritable.

    And if you can’t change the environment – leave. Drop the class. Get your money back.

    If it were a crappy remote control, that’s what you’d do, right?

    You’re dressed…

    And fed. You learn all the time. And you do math.

    Now go find a class that fits and have fun!

    Bon Crowder publishes www.MathFour.com, a math education site for parents. But that’s not all! Bon has launched a really, really, really cool initiative called Count 10, Read 10. While parents are encouraged to read to their infants, toddlers and preschoolers, we’re rarely encouraged to inject a little bit of math into the day. Bon will show you how. Take a look at her blog for more information on developing math literacy (or numeracy). I’ll be writing about this more in the coming months.


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